Intimate adult dating can be tricky. You have to have your own set of boundaries while respecting those of your date. The setting for your date will also have a lot to do with how far you get after the first date. If you are new to the intimate dating scene, or just want to better your odds, here are some tips to keep in mind.
Setting
Dinner and a movie isn’t the most intimate date idea. However, with a little planning, you can easily turn the date in to something more memorable. Find a theater that serves wine and shows independent films. Follow this up with a dinner in a swanky restaurant complete with dark lighting. Not only will this be more intimate than the average dinner and a movie outing, it will be something your date remembers.
Boundaries
Your boundaries for intimate dating may be open, your dates may not be. To avoid any awkward moments, find out before the date what they mean by intimate dating. You may find out that they aren’t referring to sex, but rather saying intimate as a way of showing a deeper level of conversation or connection desired. This also doesn’t mean your date won’t want to get more intimate sooner rather than later. Just be sure you are both on the same page with this.
Be Prepared
If you are going on a date that is designed to be intimate, be sure you are prepared. Make sure you have a small bag packed with overnight essentials just in case the date does end up that way. Pack a toothbrush, condoms, lube, and some extra undergarments.
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